Communication is a huge aspect of relationships, especially to us women. We love to talk constantly, but that’s not what communication is exactly. Sure, talking may basically be the definition of communication, however, when it pertains to relationships, communication is more than just small talk. Communication may not seem all that important when you compare it to other important aspects of relationships, but to women it’s extremely important.
So, what is communication to women versus the dictionary definition. While it does contain talking, it doesn’t mean just talking about anything. When a women tells you she wants you to communicate more, it means that she wants you to talk about important things: what’s going on in your life, if anything major is happening.There is nothing that we hate more than finding something out in the moment instead of beforehand. We don’t need to know every single detail of your life- we just want to know the important, relevant stuff. So how do you increase communication in your relationship? You simply make time to talk to her on a regular basis. She’s supposed to be an important aspect of your life, so make sure you make time to talk to her about what’s going on in your life.
Of course, don’t just go on and on and annoy her about every single aspect of your life. It’s also important to make sure that she is talking as well, and you know what’s going on in her life too. Another important aspect of communication is to remember what she was talking about and bring it up again to see how it was.
Talking about things that are going on in your day to day life is important. Sexual communication is just as important as basic communication- having a good sex life is a vital aspect of relationships for both the man and women, so talking about what is going on sexually is just as important as what’s going on with your work or family life. Talk about things that you like and things that you don’t like that are going on- come up with ideas and things that you want to try. Communicating sexually increases the likelihood of both of you enjoying your sex life.
Women want to know what’s going on with you and what’s important to you. Feeling like someone that you can confide in is important to us, so go ahead and confide in her. Talk to her, and make make it so that you and her can communicate more. One of the best ways to keep things good in your relationship is to communicate.